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I Secured the Bag and What Else? Why We Need Less Superficial Romantic Relationships

March is women’s history month but I believe that I speak to both genders in this post. What do you bring to the table in a relationship? What do you offer? Women are succeeding in education and their careers, which is an amazing thing to have. However, I believe that should not be what you offer in a relationship. Those accomplishments are for you and only you. Bragging about your degree and 6-figure income does not impress a potential suitor. What about your character and personality stand out? What are your values? Your outward beauty may capture a potential suitor but will it make someone stay with you. Food for thought.
Now for the men who are reading this same exact thing I believe applies to you also. Ironically, a lot of men do not want a gold digger but flash around their luxury cars, buy expensive gifts to impress a potential interest and think this will win over a real woman. Money cannot buy love. Your income and AMEX card will not impress someone who has their own source of income. Are you a good listener? Are you patient? Do you respect women? Do you have character?
It is very funny that some of the relationship issues we have occurred with both men and women. I believe it is a human being issue. We need to examine ourselves. What can we bring to a relationship besides superficial and material things? Success is awesome but always bragging what you have done to someone you like and interested in can be rather annoying. Flashing around all of your material possessions gets very stale over time. We need to look within ourselves and see who we are and what we can bring to a relationship. As human beings, we all need companionship and love. Let us look into more in-depth into ourselves and have deeper less superficial romantic relationships.


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